Today's post is an encouraging response to Part Four of the Simple Life Series from guest speaker and author, Elise Griffin. Ms. Griffin explains how de cluttering her family home has been beneficial in many ways. The pictures would not transport, and I have to leave the format as it is because my program did not 'like' the copy and paste version of this post.
Confessions from a Family of Pack Rats
Twelve years ago, when we were moving into our current home,
the moving truck weighed in at four tons; roughly a ton per person in our
family. This was a reduced version of “stuff” after donating a pick-up
truckload to charity and delivering another pick-up truckload to the dump.
Since that time, we accumulated more “stuff”. It’s very easy to do when you’ve
got growing kids under your roof. More important, I’m a serious bargain
shopper. I’ve never met an extra discount off of clearance coupon I could pass
up. Being bombarded with advertising everywhere doesn’t help.
One fun-loving woman I know put it best when she said, “At
least I don’t have to live like I’m poor.”
Clutter happens because we
acquire far more “stuff” than we actually need. Slowly, steadily, our
homes become stuffed with “stuff”. Have you ever been packing away Christmas,
wondering where you’ll put all of the gifts? It’s an annual event in our
household. The home office became our indoor storage unit… to the point where
it was hard to walk through the room. We all avoided it, other than to add more
to the boxes and piles.
De-cluttering is a family project. It’s no
longer just up to Mom to create and maintain an efficient, organized, peaceful
home. Children as young as six or seven can be involved in sorting their unused
or unwanted belongings to donate to charity. Broken or battered items can be
tossed in the trash can or recycle bin.
If our home office was ever to get cleaned out, it was going
to take more than just me to accomplish the task. All of the boxes and piles
were moved into the hallway, and my sons were given two big garbage bags and a
box; one bag for trash, another bag for donations, and the box for items they
weren’t sure about. As they sorted, I emptied bookshelves, filling a few boxes
with donations for the library, dusted and vacuumed… washed windows. In one
day, the room was cleaned and organized! It motivated everyone to continue
de-cluttering. Each son followed suit in their bedrooms. I tackled the kitchen
and living rooms. My husband worked on our bedroom.
After pictures of the office are below… I didn’t take before
pictures, because I was afraid someone would submit my name to the producers of
the “Hoarders” show!
You literally could
NOT see the top of the desk before.
This corner was
stacked at least 3 ft. high & wide with boxes.
The bookshelves had
been buried behind boxes.
Adopting New Habits and a New Mindset
Here are a few suggestions for your family, based on our
recent lessons:
1.
Pray for strength and diligence to accomplish your goals.
I’m a firm believer in the power of prayer. Energy and motivation often elude
me. Health issues kick in, too, as well as just plain stubbornness. And then,
it’s not always easy to get the rest of my family on board with my ideas.
2.
Whether on paper or on the computer, for one month keep
track of all non-grocery purchases you all make, particularly for items beyond
school supplies, cleaning supplies and so on. You might be (as I
was) surprised by how many non-essentials are walking through your front door.
My list included a few DVDs, household extras like a table runner on sale, 3
t-shirts that’d been on clearance with extra percent off, some deeply
discounted gifts for Christmas, etc.
3.
Next, make a list of current needs and needs for the
not-too-distant future. With growing children, for example, you
might be looking at the next size of clothing or shoes. Having this list helps
put your actual “needs” into the forefront, so you’re not as easily tempted to
buy what you don’t.
4.
Create the habit of equal amounts going “out” to what’s
coming “in” your household. When you buy those new shoes for your
son or daughter, the pairs that are too small can go “out”. If you snagged a
great deal on a DVD, gadget, gizmo, article of clothing, book, etc… find
something else that can head “out”.
5.
Project a little into the future with all of your
purchases. Anyone who knows me understands that I love jewelry and
accessories. When I see a great sale on a brand I like now, I’ve started asking
myself if it’s something I’ll be wearing or using 20 years from now. With
technological gadgets and gizmos, ask yourself if it’s going to be obsolete in
a few years, and if so, is it a good investment now? Ditto home décor… will you
love it 5 years from now? If you move, would you want to have to pack it up to
take with you?
A cluttered house is stressful and was affecting us all;
after dinner, we’d all go off to our own, quiet little spaces for the evening.
We stopped inviting anyone over. Accumulation of more “stuff” wasn’t making us
feel richer… it was bogging us down. Have you ever felt that way? What are your
thoughts and suggestions about creating a more manageable household as a
family?